Sunday, June 30, 2013

Please, don't be mistaken.

Just going over the blog, I was thinking that people reading this might think that it's just some overly cutesy and fluffy we're-the-perfect-couple blog. I grew up in the 90's, but most of my memories start in the late 90's, the time of chick flicks like Clueless, She's All That, 10 Things I Hate About You, and my favorite - Titanic. So my view on love and romance is a bit skewed, obviously. I didn't fall in love with my ex-step-brother, or win the heart of the most popular guy in school (or least), and Leonardo DiCaprio was definitely not pining for me. I guess what I'm trying to say is this: my life isn't a movie, and I'm not perfect. Life doesn't work that way.

I don't know if anyone's noticed or cared, but the entire month of June has passed away, and this is my first post of it! June has been a tough month for me, probably the toughest of all months so far. I've been pretty stressed out, irritated, Kite-sick, and crazy emotional. The only thing that's grounded me to reality has been Kite. I said that I'm not perfect, and although he's pretty darn close, I'll admit that Kite isn't perfect either. Neither is our relationship. We have problems, we disagree, I throw bratty fits, and am occasionally unnecessarily mean (notice that I'm the one being a pain in the butt). But I think the key to it all is remembering that we love each other and how much we love each other. No matter what the problem is, I think that's the thing to keep in mind for everyone. As much as Kite and I aren't perfect people, we're perfect for each other; we make it that way.

If you're going through a tough time with your significant other... just remember that you love that person (if you do). Take a moment, breathe, and humble yourself. If you love someone, please treat that person with respect. Don't put them down, don't call them names, and don't make them feel unworthy. No one is perfect - besides God, of course. Don't let something little ruin something great.


“Pride is concerned with who is right. Humility is concerned with what is right.” - President Ezra Taft Benson

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